Coleridge, Sara (1802-1852). - Letter, from an unstated address, to Mary Stanger (1804-1890), at an unstated address, dated 1840 (from the contents of the letter). WLMS Moorsom / 55 / 1 / 18

1840

My dear Mary

We have been hoping much to hear from you again- especially since my last scrap in answer to your's from Sevenoaks. Pray let us have a line either from yourself or your good spouse- to say how you go on in convalescence & to answer another question- namely this. Will you, my dear friend, accept the office of sponsor to my expected babe, if it is born alive and

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lives to be baptized- in Church which, If very weak, it will be we must have the rite performed as soon as possible after it sees the light? I have long wished to make this request, but have felt reluctant- not knowing your mind & feelings in regard to such matters. Of course if you have the slightest objection or scruple on any head you will not hesitate to name it- & pray do so without a shade of apprehension lest I should take any such objection or

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for a moment amiss. By this time I must know pretty well in a general way at least- how I stand in your regard & friendship- as you must do with regard to me. Our behaviour & bearing toward each other are a surer sign & document of such a matter than any words can be- so that there is no chance of my faith in your good will & esteem being shaken by your declining what I propose for any reasons you may have so

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to do.

I have been suffering much since I wrote to you & my worst ill has been obstinate insomnolence. Last night I really slept sleepily- so that today I have some strength & nerve to support the worry of threatening pains, and fiery heart burn, &c &c

My monthly nurse is with me & nurse Parrott with the children went to Ramsgate yesterday.

Henry is well, busy with business & other calls, (as little to be avoided,) of society- [normally] pleasure- but not always

quite such. Mama is poorly today- but was tolerable yesterday. Nurse Sherborne thinks she has worn well since she saw her- though somewhat altered in the last 5 years. God bless you & your affect. friend Sara Coleridge.

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